I want a man who comes home from work after a rough day, pins me against the wall and says “Remember your safeword, baby?” as he pulls his belt off.
- upset stomach and vomiting
- muscle aches
- chronic fatigue
- hormonal problems
- irregular menstrual cycles
- lowered immune system
- shortness of breath
- heart palpitations
it is a lot more than just “feeling anxious “
I was never told by my doctor or psychiatrist when I was diagnosed or during treatment that my anxiety could do this. This explains so so much.
Anonymous was like: My girl friend and I are supposed to be DDlg but she enjoys spanking so how do I really punish her when she naughty and disobedient??
That’s a good question and actually a ‘problem’ I run into with Pebbles sometimes. It’s important to consider the situation. A casual spank during sex or as she bends over to pick something up can be seen as playful and sexy rather than a serious punishment. The atmosphere makes a lot of difference. If you wish to let her know that she is receiving a spanking as a punishment rather than playfully then perhaps first warn her that her bad behavior will result in putting her over your knee. Use a serious tone. My Pebbles enjoys spankings when they are playful but does not enjoy them if I rebuke her for her actions whilst she is over my knee. I also administer spanks harder than usual if they are being given as a punishment. The more naughty she is, the harder the spanking (though bear in mind that safe words and limits should be discussed prior to any spanking or physical punishment) and thus the less she enjoys it.
Alternatively you could consider a different punishment altogether if she really enjoys spanking no matter what the tone, atmosphere or intensity of the spanking. For example, no cookies for a week, a time out, or just having a naughty chair. That being said I often add to this the use of different equipment, for example if Pebbles has been particularly bad there is a black ruler waiting for her.
Hope that helps, little girls who enjoy their punishments can be difficult to discipline.
He wrote a thing.
I love him so much guys.
I keep thinking that I’ll be happy and confident when I lose this weight. I need to lose about two stone. But the thing is I used to have a pretty awesome figure. I look back at photos from 4/5 years ago and I’m like wow my waist was tiny but my boobs/hips were curvy as fuck and my face was slim and wow don’t I look amazing there. But I hated my nose. I didn’t even think about my figure. But I thought about my nose every damn day. And my hair. My frizzy foofy hair. So when I do lose this weight, and I will because I feel unhealthy and shitty about myself, will I just go back to hating other bits of me?